Friday, December 18, 2009


Stuff. We all have it. Make no mistake about it, our houses, cars, rooms, cupboards and even purses are filled with it. Things you once loved or didn't, now stuffed in a closet, behind a chair, under a bed or overhead in the attic. If you were to make a list of all the stuff you have in boxes, stacked in the garage, or tossed beneath a cabinet, you couldn't. Forgotten stuff, used only for a time, not to be remembered again.

Stuff holds us in bondage. It keeps us from moving forward, from focusing on the present. And, at times, it overwhelms us. Yet, each Christmas I want more of it. I check the Sunday ads searching for it. Not only do I want more stuff, I want to give stuff to my husband and children too.

My teenage daughter Meghan, recently told me a story her college professor shared with her class. It helped me see “stuff” in a much different way.

As the students filed into the college class for their final exam, they were greeted by their teacher. He was standing beside a table of archaic looking items. As each curious student came forward, their professor explained the odd -looking objects, and then proceeded to try and sell them to his students.
“This here is an 8-track player. I'll sell it to you for $100.00.”
“Are you kidding? Those are obsolete. No one uses 8-track players anymore.” The student smirked.
“Well, how about this transistor radio? I'll give you a deal...$40.00.”
Another student peered over the table and laughed at his teacher. “That transistor radio is a dinosaur. And it only gets AM!”
“Ok, then how about this TV?” The professor waved his arm towards the gargantuan television, towering over the table.“I'll give you a bargain...$500.00.”
A chorus of students roared with laughter. “Is this a joke? I bet that TV weighs 500lbs!” The students crouched down to get a better look. “Are those dials for changing the channels? Cmon' professor!” Their laughter had them doubled over by now.
As they chuckled and giggled, their teacher calmly shared, “Men and women... some of them your own mothers and fathers, worked long hours to bring this “stuff” home to their family. Time taken away from their loved ones was used instead to bring a couple smiles, and a few light moments to those they cared about. Not much has changed today. People are working harder and longer to give those they love “stuff”. When what matters, what really counts, is time. And in time, even your newest and neatest toy this Christmas will become archaic, odd and obsolete.”
The teacher looked around his classroom. The laughter had stopped.

This Christmas, take a moment, ask the Lord to help you discover something your husband and children can't tuck away to be forgotten in a box or on a shelf. Take a walk together. Make cookies together. Share a cup of cocoa together. Cuddle on the couch together. Play a game together. Love on one another and laugh together. Memories should be the “stuff” we tuck away in our hearts this holiday season.


Anonymous said...

Awesome! I will follow your advice. My husband particularly value things which money cannot buy. Just hanging around him is more than enough for him. Merry Christmas.

Lauren said...

i love this -- it is the perfect post for the Christmas season!

The Real Me! said...

Oh so beautifully said my friend. And I whole heartedly agree with every word. We are a family who loves to laugh together and spend time together doing things. Sometimes we just sit and remember past laughs and giggles and that's fun!
Bless you sweet sister.
P.S. But we still have too much stuff! LOL!

Sheri said...

thanks, Joanne.

christy rose said...

The stuff we tuck away in our hearts is the only stuff of any value, truly!

Marsha said...

What a great illustration that professor used!

Thanks for sharing this "stuff" with us.

: )

Denise said...

Amen, amen.

Erin said...

How I have missed reading your blogs. Like everyone else, the obligations of this most wonderful season has kept me busy. I am so thankful that THIS is the first post I see. Thank you for this reminder. I need to slow down, hang out with my favorite 9-year old girl.
You are awesome and I hope you have a blessed Christmas.

3 Blessings said...

This post gave me chills. Such truth! Thank you for sharing and for your sweet comments.

(Yes, he is quiet and thought filled in comparison to me :)


Shermanators said...

I loved this post so much I sent it out to all my family and friends, with a big "THANK YOU" to my parents for raising us this way! :) I LOVE christmas SO MUCH because of all the memories... Merry CHRISTmas!! :)

Braley Mama said...

That is such a great way of looking at stuff! Thanks 4 sharing:)

Beth in NC said...

Great post Joanne. Memories are much better, you're right.

The other stuff -- I NEED to pass along to someone else.

Karen said...

Amen...loved that last line....


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